There is no formula for custody, but judges look at the same questions in almost every case.
| What the court looks at | Why it matters |
|---|---|
| Who has cared for the child day to day | Stability and routine |
| Each parent’s home and work schedule | Practical care |
| The child’s school and community | Keeping what works |
| Each parent’s willingness to co-parent | Courts value cooperation |
| The child’s own wishes, by age | Older children are heard |
Keep a simple diary of school runs, appointments and activities. It is often the best evidence you have.
This article is general information, not legal advice for your situation. Laws differ from place to place: talk to an attorney before you act on it.